The American Dream is one of the most desirable goals in American society. Yet, it is one of the hardest goals to define. Meanings of the American Dream vary from such things as owning a house, a car, a dog to having religious freedom and getting an education. But with so many different meanings of the American Dream how could one individual possibly comprehend which American Dream is for them? To figure out that question one must look inside themselves and figure out what is in their own best interest. My grandfather, Robert Berkowitz, did exactly that.
Born into a middle class family in Brooklyn, New York, my grandfather would always strive to do the best he could. He grew up in a strict family where there was no room for games. Eventually my grandfather attended North Eastern University and worked his way through college. Soon after he graduated college he married my grandmother and they had four children. Around the same time he started his own computer company which was very successful. Money was no longer an issue for him and he could have anything he ever wanted.
Although he had become more successful than he ever imagined something was wrong. This was not his American dream and my grandfather struggled with depression for a while. During his last years of life I very often had deep conversations with him. He taught me the secrets of success and in a way was my spiritual adviser. During our talks he would let out all his emotions out and I could see his true self. What I saw was excitement and happiness. It was not until now that I realized what my grandfathers American Dream was. It was to help others and simply have a straight forward conversation with them. He was quick to offer help to people in need and always helped them in the most enthusiastic way. Nothing gave him more joy then just being there for someone. His American Dream was to help others achieve theirs. I believe that is a very noble American Dream and I strive to be like my grandfather.
Excellent post, Kevin. I really enjoyed the fact that you recount conversations that you had with your grandfather. Past generations are living history, and talking to them about their struggles and stories for success makes us realize how deep the American Dream has impacted generations, past and present. One of the ideas that Cullen mentions about the AMerican Dream is that it is passed down from generation to generation, but that the younger generation must accept the challenges of the Dream willingly. It sounds like that is exactly the message that your grandfather gave you during his lifetime.
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